Let me give you some simple rules to follow. These rules will help you be sure you are getting her something that she will want to wear for you. Of course you always benefit from this if she feels sexy and more self confident. Taking a little time and doing a little up front research to figure out what makes her comfortable will pay off the first time you see her wearing your gift.
Why make it hard on yourself? Go to the local lingerie store, wait around for a sales person to offer assistance? Wonder if everyone in the lingerie section is staring at you like you have two heads or something? You can avoid all of this frustration and embarassment by shopping online.
There are, the last time I checked, about 3 million online shops that specialize in sexy lingerie. Some sell a wide variety of lingerie, different styles, different colors, and different materials. Some specialize by size. Some sell strictly for petite women, some specialize in sexy plus size lingerie. You can visit an online purveyor of lingerie and spend as much time as you like browsing around until you find that just right item, all without the pressures and embarrassments of shopping in a store. Shopping for anything online today is easy, safe and confidential.
Like anything you try to do with little or no knowledge, a little homework will always help. Make sure as an example that you don't get it wrong with the sizes when you buy her this special gift. Women can be pretty insecure and giving her a piece of lingerie that doesn't fit will only make her feel too fat or too skinny. And we both know that isn't your intention. Never guess at this.
One of the best ways to get the sizes right is really quite simple. You don't want to come right out and ask her so how else can you find out? Easy, look through the lingerie she already has. You might want to take care to do this on the sly. If she catches you she might think one of two things that you don't want her thinking. One; she might think you have developed a fetish for ladies undergarments. And unless you do have this fetish it won't look too good for you. Two; if she doesn't wonder about you in that way, she might get tipped off to what your doing which would certainly ruin the surprise element of your gift.
Lingerie is typically sized in a couple of different ways. If the lingerie is sized for the woman's bust it will show typical bra sizes like 36C or 38 or 40D. If the lingerie is sized like a woman's dress size it will probably have a size like 6,8,10,12 and so on. Of course some of the generic sizes used for lingerie are Extra small, Small, Medium, Large etc.
A very important but simple thing to do when trying to decide on sizes is to look at the different size charts of some of the lingerie manufacturers. Don't know any? Check the labels of your ladie's lingerie. Most of the companies that make lingerie, although they may only sell wholesale to retailers, still have a size chart on their websites. Looking these different size charts over will show you how much they differ from company to company. In the long run you will get a good idea of what sizes you need based on the height, weight and bust size of your special lady. And remember what I told you, its important to get the size right.
When you decide on an online retailer, check for size charts first thing. If the retailer sells for several different lingerie companies they should have a size chart for each of the lingerie companies they represent. The size charts at the retailer site should be specific to the lingerie company with weight, bust and height measurements also show.
Now that you've figured out the range of measurements and understand the sizing, lets move on to colors and styles. When it comes to what style of lingerie women like, there are as many differences in what they like as there are available styles. Some women like more conservative but equally sensual gowns and robes. Some women prefer something a bit more revealing like a teddie, a baby doll or a cami. Some of course prefer the lingerie that shows a wilder side to her where she wants to be revealing, or wants to show off what she considers to be her finer assets. Low cut, sheers, see through, peek-a -boos, tight fitting etc. You should have gotten an idea of what she likes when you were poking around in her underwear drawer. Remember one thing. You are buying this for her, not you. So buy her something you know SHE will like, not what you like.
Color is equally important. Buying her a lime green night knowing she doesn't like lime green would be wrong. No matter how good you thought it looked on the model. Women are more creative with colors than men but even though they all still tend to like certain colors and combinations of color. See what colors she wears the most now and don't stray too far from that if you can help it. A good rule of thumb if your not really sure is: redheads look great in green and yellow, brunnettes look sexy in red and white and blondes always good good in black and blue.
Now that you have some ideas about the styles, sizes, colors of the lingerie you want to buy you have to do the hardest part of the process. Browse through the websites looking at beautiful women in lingerie until you find that perfect item for your special lady.
Most of the online lingerie shops offer free gift wrapping services so take advantage of that and add a little glimmer of surprise to her gift. Women love to get gifts and unwrapping them just adds to the excitement for them.
Everyone knows women love getting gifts. If your thinking
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